Blazing Your Path Toward Self Development

Blazing Your Path Toward Self Development

There are many things in our lives that may serve as the impetus for a renewed “Self-Development Effort,” or what I’ll refer to as an “SDE.”  A New Year’s resolution, a promotion, taking on a new professional position, perhaps a significant life change or family transition, just to name a few.  Like most, I can reflect on scores, if not a few hundred “SDEs” in my life.  What I have learned is…

Get Real. It’s Better for Everyone.

Get Real.  It’s Better for Everyone.

For my last several years in uniform I repeatedly heard, “You don’t act like a colonel.” You can read that any number of ways, and the speaker would realize it, typically following up on the assertion with, “No, no, that’s a GOOD thing.” I always took it as a…

Everyone Has a Plan… and then, Boom.

Everyone Has a Plan… and then, Boom.

Before his bout with Evander Holyfield, a reporter asked Mike Tyson if he was concerned about his opponent’s plan for the fight. Mr. Tyson famously responded, “Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the mouth.” Everyone chuckled. I chuckled and went about my business. Then I got “punched in the mouth.”

Preparation is Overrated

Preparation is Overrated

Alright, I confess, the title is there to grab your attention…sort of. You see, while there are many adages and clever quotes devoted to the topic of preparation, very little is mentioned about the importance of what successful individuals and teams do afterwards; post-event rituals and…

Leadership is about relationships, not power

Leadership is about relationships, not power

I really like Stephan Pastis’ comic strip “Pearls Before Swine” because it’s clever and funny when he isn’t making horrible puns. The strip has it’s main characters like Goat, Rat, and Pig but there are some other characters that occasionally make an appearance like The Wise Ass on the Hill. The character is, you guessed it, the proverbial wise person sitting on a hill dispensing wisdom to those willing to make the journey. The insights from the Wise Ass are normally enough to make me smile though I occasionally cringe because he hits too close to home.

Goal Setting vs Trend Setting

Goal Setting vs Trend Setting

We hear it all the time from our family, friends, and peers. What are your goals? Did you succeed? Even better, what about their reactions to our answers. “Whoa, that’s quite ambitious of you,” and in doing so, planting the seed of doubt that our eyes might be bigger than our stomach.

Sharpening Leadership Skills through Volunteering

Sharpening Leadership Skills through Volunteering

Volunteering—particularly with an industry or professional organization provides an opportunity to develop leadership skills in many ways. Seasoned professionals will often find time to volunteer and contribute in specialized ways, but if you’re looking for…

Dare to Fail...to Succeed.

Dare to Fail...to Succeed.

In today’s world we are obsessed with winning; we love to celebrate success: parades for world champions, news interviews for medalists, top stories on award winners - the list goes on and on. Turn on the news or ESPN and you will find…

Feedback at Its Finest: Both Honest and Kind

Feedback at Its Finest: Both Honest and Kind

As you reflect on the wisdom and counsel you have received over the years, what are the most memorable? Take a moment. Not just the ‘good’ ones, but the truly stop-you-in-your-tracks, I’ve-got-to-think-about-this-more-deeply’ kind. Hopefully, you’ve had at least a few of these. Let me tell you about one that still stands out for me, from a while back, but is now maybe more important than ever before.

Decision-Making 101

Decision-Making 101

I can’t help but notice over the last several years the basics of decision-making appear not so basic anymore. One thing is for certain, we’re all faced with important decisions, personally and/or professionally. In my opinion, such an important thing merits universal basics to apply.

Focus and Direction

Focus and Direction

There is a rule of thumb known as the 1 in 60 rule in aviation. It states that for every 1 degree a plane veers off its intended course, it will miss its target destination by one mile for every sixty miles flown.

Managing Transitions; Private Sector Considerations from a Military Mindset

Managing Transitions; Private Sector Considerations from a Military Mindset

Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity, and Ambiguity. These words seem to define business and the non-profit operating environment. Changing politics, the COVID-19 pandemic, supply challenges, and changing labor attitudes represent only a few of the many topics that leaders must address. However…

Three Leadership Killers: Pride, Judgment, and Comparison

Three Leadership Killers: Pride, Judgment, and Comparison

Self-awareness is one of the most important things in being a leader worth following, particularly if seeking to be known as a true servant leader. Knowing your strengths, weaknesses, and even your emotional vulnerabilities is vital to successfully “walk your talk” as a leader. At this point in my life, career, and journey as a leader, I can reflect…

Reflections upon choices: a journey committing to a life of continuous learning and a positive attitude

Reflections upon choices:  a journey committing to a life of continuous learning and a positive attitude

Several times in my life I’ve had the opportunity to take part in many educational, training and leadership development venues. For the most part when given the opportunity I gave my best effort. However, there were a few times when…